To take a step back from the original question, which Furby already answered pretty well... what are some general strategies we can use to solve a problem like this when we get stuck?
Believe it or not, there are some really excellent general problem solving strategies, as outlined in George Polya's amazing book: How to Solve It (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/How_to_Solve_It). Much of his advice about solving math problems also pertains to computer science problems.
A strategy that I commonly use is: use an example.
That is, think carefully through the steps needed to solve a specific instance of the problem (e.g. with numbers instead of variables).
Suppose you have a 5x5 list of lists named numberTable , and our desired column number is 3.
Then we would need to access:
numberTable[0][3]
numberTable[1][3]
numberTable[2][3]
numberTable[3][3]
numberTable[4][3]
and add all of those up.
(Another of George Polya's strategies is to draw a picture/diagram, which would also be helpful in visualizing column index 3 in a 5x5 array... but it's hard for me to insert such a diagram here. It would be pretty easy to sketch on paper though!)
Notice that the first index is changing, but the 2nd index is not, because we always want column #3. That means we'll want a FOR LOOP to go from 0 through 4, to represent each row index, while we will continue to use 3 (our desired column index) for the 2nd index into the table.
If this doesn't lead naturally to code yet, try tracing through a second example, with a 4x4 table where we want to add up column 0.